Our small piece of the total picture holds no position for judgment. This also includes self-judgment. We simply do not have the whole picture, but we assume we do and run with it. Every bit of this tendency stems from our own self judgment. And as I’ve said before, this self judgment is what causes all the trouble for humanity. How often do we choose judgment over compassion? Here’s something to know also, and this is very important. There is no fault or finger to point. We simply don’t know what we do. The cycle of blame has no end, or justification. Our intuition tells the story, but we over rule it. We feel when something isn’t right. We have just gotten so used to the ill effects of judgment we see it as normal. You know the feeling, tension in your head with an uneasiness in the stomach. It’s not a good feeling, and it all stems from self-judgment.
How quick we are to point, not realizing we only ever point at our own self-opinion. Proof of this is so obvious, yet won’t be seen without willingness. How often do we make assumptions and find out later a totally different story. It’s a continuous assessment with no awareness of the whole picture and no trust there is a higher good at play. Willingness is continuously my only advice and all that’s necessary for freeing yourself from the tyranny of self-judgment. Here is the sad truth of it. The reason it’s so difficult and rare to find real freedom is because of our refusal to see our own innocence. Unbelievable and will likely be resisted, but a truer statement, there isn’t. The foundation and innerworkings of this are unseen, and why it continues without notice. It seems insane, that we are unwilling to see our own innocence, until you see it’s foundation.
The foundation is built by an innocent child just trying to survive. We all build it without exception. This foundation is built on ignorance. From a new-born to a toddler this foundation is built. Intuition is all an innocent child knows. There is no thought, no conceptual abilities, and no reasoning skills. Just a feeling, and this feeling is very keen on it’s surroundings. We assume, for the most part that a baby is undeveloped in all ways. Here is our assumption machine on display at the most critical time of child development. There is one skill that babies as well as animals have, well above most adult humans. Intuition. Far and away there intuitive awareness is undeniable. Look at it like this. Think of how a blind person develops there other senses to better navigate. Now imagine most of your attention is on your inner feeling unbothered with continuous mind flow. You will see the world in an entirely different way, and best of all you will be tapped into true navigation. This pull away from our inner connection is what creates this feeling of unbalance and something not being right. Take it one step further, and look at how we use our sensing skills as our primary guidance. Everything we see, hear, smell, taste and touch is our primary navigation. Now look at how many times this way of navigating leads us astray.
A child’s intuition is it’s primary way of navigation. Two worlds collide and only one will survive. I don’t need to say which, that’s obvious. Here is a clear picture of how the innocent becomes condemned and the cycle of disfunction carries on without notice. No matter the loving intention of the parents, they can not hide there own inner wounds from a child. This energy that everyone puts out is very clear and easily felt through intuition. The primary care takers are the child’s whole world, and that world feels like a source of love and comfort. Yet it also comes with a feeling of difference. And it’s this difference that forms into a rejection of innocence, or a little less dramatic a rejection of the connection within. Yes, it’s obvious that this self-rejection doesn’t make sense and has no grounds, and there-in lies a look at the naivety that holds this dark secret.
This self-rejection is so well hidden and unseen we are only left with the affects of it as evidence. This feeling that something isn’t right, or that I’m not right. We all have it to some degree, so that makes it normal. You need only look at how humans are the only species that has such trouble enjoying life to know life isn’t meant to be this way. If not for the experiences I’ve had in my life, I wouldn’t see it or question it. But we can all agree we don’t like it, and look for relief from it. It all comes back to the same doorway to freedom. Willingness. Willingness to be wrong. Willingness to see yourself with kindness and understanding. Willingness to let go. Ultimately everyone and everything that comes to you in life is for your benefit. Willingness to see it’s always about you and what you need, is the mindset needed to be free. Life has you completely with the very best of intentions. But it can only give you what you allow. Be your own hero and open the door for your innocents to be known. It’s a strange thing, but our need to be right is the chain that holds us to a feeling of being wrong. Kindness within sees a world that knows only light…